"The Misfits"

Tuesday, December 29, 2009

The Rebirth of Islamic Terrorism - By: Jamal Greene


You would have had to be living under a rock over the Christmas Holiday if you haven’t heard by now that there was an attempted hijack of a Northwest Airlines plane by a Nigerian Islamists by the name of Umar Farouk Abdulmutallab. The suspect, western educated and according to media reports, living the good life, boarded the flight going to Detroit, which by the way has the largest Muslim population of any American city, in an attempt to detonate an explosive device and take down the plan along with its 300 passengers.

Luckily, the plot was foiled, not by the Obama Administration, but by a courageous passenger on board. This incident, along with the terrorists acts of Fort Hood, leave me to believe that in this “age of terrorism”, we are more vulnerable, not safer, under the watchful eye of the Obama White House. Say what you will, but after the 9/11 attacks, President Bush and his national security team put measures in place to protect America, both domestic and our international interests. President Bush understood the nature of the threat we faced and he was determined that it would not happen again on his watch, and it didn’t. There were no more domestic terrorist’s attacks that occurred on Bush’s watch because of the robust, and often controversial, remedies he put in place. The creation of the Department of Homeland Security, the Terror surveillance programs, enhance terrorists interrogations, the Wars in Afghanistan and Iraq, and the detention of terrorist in Guantanamo Bay are all measure put in place to keep American safe; all of which have been undermined by the current administration.

Since President Obama took office in January of this year, the nation has had to deal with the tragedy of Ft Hood, the first executed Terror attack on this country since 9/11, and a kind of complacency from the President in the war against Terror. President Obama and his team would benefit from studying the history of the Fundamentalists Islamic Movement and the ideals that guide them.


At times I find it hard to believe that this movement is fueled by only a small sect of Islam, and that the overwhelming majority of Muslims are peace loving disciples of the Prophet; the evidence tends to point to the contrary. The Origins of the Contemporary Fundamentalists Islamic movement has it genesis in the 18th century, in what is now modern day Saudi Arabia. In the 1700s, there was a man by the name of Mohammad Ibn 'Abd al-Wahhab, who after studying in the Iraqi city of Basra, came to the conclusion that Islam had become too modern and this modernity was not what the Prophet had intended. He preached a puritanical version of Islam which called for a return to Fundamentals and strict interpretation of the Sharia, or Islamic Law. Originally this version of Islam was rejected by the inhabitants of Arabia because most of them were pagans and had no concept of the “one God”; this doctrine was foreign to them. Wahhab’s fortune changed after meeting Muhammad Ibn Saud; the two formed an alliance in which they would retake Arabia by both the Sword and Quran. Saud would become the head of state and Wahhab the architect of social society; that state would become known as The Kingdom of Saudi Arabia. Saudi Arabia, a stated US ally, is also one of the leading state sponsors of terror around the world; after all 15 of the 19 9/11 hijackers were from Saudi Arabia. Saudi Arabia’s oil revenue routinely goes to fund racial madrasahs, or religious schools, where anti Americanism is preached and hatred against Israel and Non-Wahhabi Muslims is nurtured. Many of the Saudi princes and oil Sheiks regularly invest in the proselytizing of non-Fundamentalists and non-Muslims throughout the Muslim world and Europe.

However, the man credited with the modern rise of radical Islam is an Egyptian by the name of Sayyid Qutb. Qutb, an Egyptian born writer and later political prisoner, who after spending time in America and learning of American democracy and civil society, decided that it was because of Classical Liberalism that the world was in decay and that a return to fundamentalists Islam was necessary.

In what some consider to be his master work, Milestone, Qutb articulated the need for a reemergence of Jihad, or Holy War; no longer would it mean the inner struggle against personal demons, Jihad became the war cry of Extremists throughout the Muslim world. Libya, Saudi Arabia, Pakistan, Afghanistan, Iran, and now Yemen are some of the biggest sponsors of terrorism on the planet and Anti Americanism isn’t receding in some of these countries, it’s increasing.


The history of contemporary Islamic terrorism is something that every free man should be cognitive of, after all, those who forget the lessons of History are due to repeat its failures. The US government must realize that these are not people that can be persuaded or negotiated with. Islamists see their only mission and purpose in life is Jihad; and no amount of incentives will convince them to change their minds. The Islamists sees their mission as divinely order and orchestrated; and believe it or not, they fear the eternal retribution of Allah more than the AK-47’s carried by Western forces. Just a few of the attacks are as follows:
November 1979 - Hostages taken at the U.S. Embassy in Tehran


April 1983 - Bombing of U.S. Embassy in Beirut
October 1983 - Bombing of Marine barracks in Beirut
December 1983 - Bombing of the U.S. Embassy in Kuwait
June 1985 - Hijacking of TWA Flight 847
December 1988 - Bombing of Pan Am Flight 103
February 1993 – World Trade Center Bombing
August 1998 – African Embassy Bombings
December 2000 – USS Cole Bombing
September 2001 – 9/11 Attacks


This list is a very short version of the thousands, over 9000 since 9/11, terror attacks throughout the world. Everyday Radicals are planning the demise of America and our way of life. To defeat this enemy we must remain of the offensive; we must seek out and destroyed terror cells worldwide targeting them both financially and militarily. Under President Bush, the Treasury began to track, freeze, and seize assets under American jurisdiction that was found to be aiding terrorism and thankfully President Obama has continued some of these policies. However if the President wants to avoid another situation like the attempted Detroit bombing or even worse, another 9/11, he would be wise to embrace more of the Bush/Cheney national security policies implemented after 9/11; after all they worked. Terrorist surveillance programs should be increased, faster location and seizing of Terrorist assets is needed, along with a policy to deal aggressively with nations that support and harbor terrorists. The US must not lose heart in this, the epic battle that will determine the future of Western Civilization as we know it. The US must defeat the Taliban in both Afghanistan and Pakistan and deny them a safe haven anywhere on the planet. This is not something the US can do alone; we need support: economically, diplomatically, and militarily from our allies, after all their way of life also hangs in the balance. We must remember that Freedom and Liberty are fragile things and are never more than one generation away from extinction.

Sunday, December 27, 2009

Music Hits The Spot Series (How Good It Is?) - By: Donald Mitchell


Yeah I know it's been a minute since I last posted, but there's been a good reason for this: #1 being that I'm in my hometown and there's no internet connection at the parental units crib. (yeah I'm thievin...but don't tell nobody! lol) But onto the subject at hand...and that's to discuss the music of the moment.

For some reason, Erykah Badu has been on my mind heavy lately. I'm not sure why, because I've never been the biggest E. fan, but there are some of her songs that I get into. To me, she's always been good for the songs where you can sit down with that special boo, pop open a bottle of your favorite wine, listen to her music, and just enjoy the company that you're in. I'm actually gonna discuss my top 4 today...startin with this song:









Now this has been, and will always be my favorite song. She poured her heart and soul into this song, singin about her jealousy for a past love and his current lady. She's caught up in the game, and she can't leave. I've been there before and it's not a nice sight. But then again, ain't nothin you can do about it but wipe up your feelings and move on to the next one.

Next up:









I think it was one of my Twitter friends who put this song in my head (and if it was then *shakin fist at you*), but in a way, I'm glad they did. I didn't realize how tight this song is...and I had to go back and revisit it. Now that I've done so, this song has bumped itself into the #2 spot of my faves of Erykah. Hailing from her second CD "Mama's Gun", this was one of many bangers from this CD. I think that Erykah's best work was done on her first 2 CDs. Honestly, she lost some of her touch after Mama's Gun. Don't get me wrong, the ones after MG was ok to good, but not on the levels of Baduizm and MG.

Now let's move to my favorite song from Baduizm:









Have you ever had that one person that you was really feelin, but have the strangest idea that you two won't ever make it to that level? This is what E was singin about in this song. Now she's involved in a relationship, but she's really diggin this other dude. So because she can't get with dude, she says that they'll be together...next lifetime. Hopefully it'll work out for them next time when they are butterflies. LOL

And last but not least, This wasn't on any one CD, yet a soundtrack, but it definitely makes it onto my list.









This was around the time that Erykah was messin with Common (and even though she had him all kinds of open....but I digress..lol). But this was a very fun song, and this is a good dance song in the club, or even in the privacy of your own home. All I'ma say is quit frontin like the one you with ain't the one that you lovin on day in and day out. E didn't.

Friday, December 18, 2009

Music Hits The Spot Series (Let It Snow!) - By: Donald Mitchell


Today's post is dedicated to the weather...since here in DC, we're supposed to get at least a foot and a half of snow tomorrow. Seriously, I don't see that happening, BUT in lieu of it coming during the Christmas season (thank you Jesus), today will be about those holiday songs that bring out the Merry Ho Ho in us all.









This is one of quite a few songs that tend to excite the young lad in me. Honestly, music in general does this, but being as though I'm out on my own now, it's songs like this that remind me of my youth. I believe that Christmas is a time that you spend with your loved ones, and a lot of these songs, I've been hearing since childhood. You'd think that I would get tired of hearing em, but one can never get tired of things that bring joy to your life. (pause...)

With that being said, here are some of my favorites:

N'Sync - O Holy Night: Yeah I know....but these white boys KILT this version!

Donny Hathaway - This Christmas: God rest his soul. Nobody ever since has been able to do an edition of this song like he did.

The Temptations - Silent Night: Christmas just ain't Christmas without them wailing this song out over the radio waves.

Vanessa Williams - What Child is This: I love this version because it's very soulful and chill. But then again, when have you ever really known V. Dubb to be extra krunk.

Whitney Houston - Who Would Imagine a King: This lady has PLENTY o' Christmas hits I coulda said...but this one just stands out as it describes the REAL reason for Christmas.

Nat King Cole - The Christmas Song: This is one of my FAVORITE Christmas songs...everytime this song comes on, I'm goin IN!

Alvin and the Chipmunks - Hula Hoop: If anything is indicative of one's childhood, this would be it.....old school video and all.

Eartha Kitt - Santa Baby: One of the sexiest songs ever sang about Kris Kringle. LOL.

Listening to these songs always put me in a good mood. What are some of your favorites?

Tuesday, December 15, 2009

Music Hits The Spot Series (The NEW Robin Thicke) - By: Donald Mitchell


The title to this post has a double meaning to it. Yes it is about the new Robin Thicke joint that just came out today, but it's also in meaning to a new person. A new Robin Thicke if you will. As you read on, you'll see what I mean by the double meaning.

Sex Therapy is pretty much not what I thought it would be, classic Robin if you will. A bunch of ballads and lounge songs that made RT known for what he is. I know that many people (myself included) thought that it would be like albums from the past: a bunch of kick back and relax, enjoy the breeze in the sunset, ride along in your car on a hot summer day type songs. But Robin had another thought in mind for all of his fans.

This is where the new Robin comes into play. Sure enough, he's done duets with rappers (one of my favorites being Shooter w/ Weezy), but even in those, he's always stayed true to his form....a singer. Never has he tried to take on the role of the person that he's doing the song with. Well I guess this is a new era...a new decade....a new Robin. Cause on the first half of the cd, that's all it is...the hip hop, "rappin" Robin. IMO it's a different look on him, but given some more practice, one that the world could (and would) get used to. Now I will admit, I think he ran into some writers' block on those songs (see Shakin It 4 Daddy, and Meiplè), but they introduce a more upbeat, fun Robin w/ looks from Hov, Nicki Minaj, and the Doggfather himself, Snoop. Even Kid Cudi makes a hot track with Robin in Elevatas.

Now that's not to say that classic Robin doesn't come out...cause on the last half of the cd, that's when true to form, what we're used to Robin shines through. "Jus Right" is a personal favorite from this part of the cd, and even "Mona Lisa" does it for me. Let's not forget the song that put this CD on the map in the first place: Sex Therapy. That song just drips all kinds of sex from the first intro to the end. Honestly, it's a look that Robin should never COMPLETELY stray away from, cause it's what created who he is, and it'll continue to bring him success in life.

But all in all, even though it seems like 2 separate cds from the first half to the second half, I still think it's a pretty good cd in all. I'd give it a B+, simply because he still needs to work at the "new" Robin more before I can give him an A on that type of effort. But as of right now, I like it, and I give it my stamp of approval.

Good job Robin!

Sunday, December 13, 2009

Music Hits The Spot Series (We Must Be In Love)

This post is actually dedicated to one of my B.L.A.C.K. brothers who is gettin married this weekend (congrats M. Moore...do it big homie!). As he and I had a conversation about the whole marriage deal, it made me think, which songs would define my wedding? Now I know that there are PLENTY o songs out there that could convert as wedding songs, but I believe that wedding music should be specific to the couple that's getting married.

Now I know that I'd have to compromise some things, because my tastes aren't going to always directly line up with my wife's; but there are some songs that are MUSTS in my wedding. Now everything is not going to be all slow dances, and tearjerkers. But these songs are those that I would recommend in ANY wedding (now the reception..thats' a whole different post right there.

In my opinion, music for the wedding should fit the occasion at hand. A serious moment where you and your bride (or groom) to be are about to join as one under the eyes of God. Me personally, I don't think that coming down the aisle to some uptempo beat (insert any of the millions on deck) should be incorporated into your ceremony. You may get a few side eyes from the guests, and definitely the evil eye from the mothers. lol. Not a good way to start off relations with your new in-laws. LOL

But below are some songs that I would love to have in my wedding (if I ever have one...I'm still prayin on that one. lol)

Boyz II Men - I Do: This song is definitely a wedding song. I mean, if you listen to the lyrics, they pretty much give you the vows to say. LOL

Kenny Lattimore - For You: Classic wedding song. If you really love this woman, then this song will show everyone through song.

Jaheim - Forever: A nice ghetto swing to it...but still appropriate for all age limits.

Intro - Ribbon in the Sky: Now I know folx will not feel me on this one, but guess what, I think that Intro's version was better than Stevie's. *shrugs*

Beyoncè & Luther - The Closer I Get to You: Now I tried to get away from Luther, since we all know that the majority of his slow ballads were wedding/baby makers lmao, but hey, we gotta give the man props when props are due.

Brian McKnight - Never Felt This Way: This here...coupled with a beautiful bride, will have not a DRY EYE in the building if played while she's walking down the aisle. Alicia Keys did a wonderful version of this song as well, but only as an interlude.

and even this one:

will work out what you want to say to her, especially if you can't figure out the right words for her. Just listen to Jesse....he can give you some pointers (as long as you don't plaigarize his song).

The way you walk
the way you talk
the way you say my name, your smile
The way you move,
the way you soothe me
the way you sing softly through the night
Every morning you rise
and open your eyes
I just wanna be with you baby
I just wanna be yours
From this day forth.

Friday, December 11, 2009

Music Hits The Spot series (RIP Baby Girl) - By: Donald Mitchell

As I was listening to my Pandora station, tryin to get a topic for my new post, this song came on, and I instantly had an epiphany (not Chrisette Michele style..lol)

This was one of the many Aaliyah songs that I loved, simply because even though Aaliyah wasn't the greatest artist vocally, but she brought her own Detroit style to the table. (not to mention, she looks DAYUM good in a 2 split skirt). Even though her beginnings started off with that scandalous pedophilic musical mastermind R'rah Kelly, she eventually bloomed into her own, and realized that the girly look was gonna take her farther in the business than the "thug misses" look ever would. (and I agree...leave that to Da Brat..lol).

Aaliyah's life was taken way before her time shoulda been gone, but honestly I guess that's not really my decision to make. She gave us 3 good to great albums before her untimely passing, but if given the chance, I bet that she had a lot more to offer the world. Aaliyah paved the way for such folks like Ciara and Teyana Taylor...but I betcha that if she was still alive, that she woulda been blowin them to pieces. Some of my favorites by the Baby Girl herself are listed below (and low key, I still bump some of them to this day. lol)

Back and Forth- The first single from her first CD "Age Ain't Nothin But a Number". This was the song that introduced us to the female protege of R'rah.

Street Thing- This wasn't a mainstream hit, but it was a banger. Loved the feeling she put into it.

Age Ain't Nothin But a Number- The title track from her 1st cd that let folks know that even though she may be young, she still know how to get down.

One in a Million- A re-used title with a bangin beat and different words. The title track from her second CD: this was the beginning of a Timbo era.

If Your Girl Only Knew- The first single released from the second CD. Probably was the theme song for all those fly girls back in the day. LOL

We Need a Resolution- First track from her self-titled and last CD. She really came wit it. Gotta love the Timbo beat.

I Care 4 U- Love the sincerity in this video. She vows to make things all better after a broken relationship. Fellas, how many of us are lookin for someone like that?

I Don't Wanna Be- From the Romeo Must Die Soundtrack....acting was pretty bad, but the song knocks tho!

There were plenty of others that could and should be mentioned here, but if I listed all of the songs that banged throughout her career, we'd be here all day. I know that you guys got more to list, but these are the ones that stood out to me. The world is missing an angel, but she's in Heaven right now performing for those people up there now.

R.I.P. Aaliyah


Wednesday, December 9, 2009

U Can Learn Alot from Your 'Elders'!

Elder Conversation

Written by: Kenneth-Michael

In the living room of the northwest Baltimore home, sixty-eight year-old Eli Hinton reclines in this over-sized chair, as he watches television. Hinton is originally from Chester County, South Carolina, but moved to Baltimore in 1964. Chester County is 72 miles away from Columbia, South Carolina. He says that growing up in the south, all he knew was farm life and hard work. Slouched in the chair, Hinton reminiscences about growing up in the south, working hard, the things he cherishes, and the biggest challenge he deals with daily…

What kind of jobs have you had?

I worked as person planting trees. I worked in a lumber yard. All of that was in Lauren, South Carolina, which is just a couple miles from Chester. In Charlotte—I worked in Charlotte, too, before I moved here [to Baltimore]. In Charlotte, I worked for the construction and repair shop and I tried demolition, but I didn’t like that. I only worked like three days in demolition and I had to give it up.

How much were you getting paid at the time you held these jobs?

I think I was getting paid a dollar and half an hour I believe at the lumber. In construction, I was making about $2.00 an hour. Even when I lived in Baltimore, I was only making about $3.10.

What could a dollar and a half get you?

The price of living was real cheap. So, a dollar and a half an hour then was about like $20.00 an hour today. Basically, a lot of times you worked by the day. A lot of jobs you had, they paid you by the day. So, when I was picking cotton, they paid you by the hundred pounds and I never picked over two hundred pounds in my life. They only paid you $2.00 per a hundred pounds. I never picked over two hundred pounds, so I never made over $4.00 a day. Growing up in the south, the things that you might have faced depended on the area you lived. Now, the part of the south I was in, it wasn’t too bad, but down like in Georgia, Alabama, and all them places, it was hard. When I was going to plant the trees, I planted some trees in Georgia and I hated Georgia. It was some times in Georgia that I wouldn’t even leave the site. Back then, you had segregation. You couldn’t go into stores.

The stories that we’ve read about and seen on television, Mr. Eli says that he lived it. He said that he decided to move to Baltimore, Maryland for a change. The moved landed him a job in the Baltimore County Public School system as a custodian…

Interview of an Elder

Written by: MARKEZZACKUI

***For this assignment, ETM West Correspondent MARKEZZACUI conducted an interview with his mother via email…

What were the popular hairstyles and clothes while you were growing up?

Ponytails, bobs, french roll, natural (afro) & braids. Bell bottom pants, neru/dashiki tops, hot pants/mini skirts, platform shoes. (lol)

What were the popular T.V. shows you enjoyed watching the most?

Bugs Bunny, Marcus Welby, M.D., Julia (1st black nurse/black woman with own TV sitcom), Star Trek, Perry Mason, Roller Derby, Dark Shadows, Bewitched, I Love Lucy…


Was there a strong unity amongst African-American women? What is the difference today?

Strong unity among the women in the family. In general, not too much competition. Today, it’s beautiful. Women are talking, trusting, helping, [and] truly befriending each other again.

What was the economy like when you were growing up?

Economy—compared to today—very inexpensive. Didn't have all these regulations. California-specific laws driving up prices.

Who were the most popular role models of the day? Who were yours?

Role models: women in the church, my mother & sister. Popular role models [were] like today: models, singers, TV stars…


A Conversation With An Elder:
Eugene McWilliams

Written by: Renee BlackStar

As I’m typing this up, I am really wishing that I could give you this conversation with my grandfather in its entirety. I love talking with him and hearing stories from his bottomless bag of adventures. But, it would probably take a good year of listening to hear them all, or even ten years for me to type them all up! My grandpa has an absolutely fantastic sense of humor (I can’t tell you how hard I laughed throughout this entire interview). Not only is he very funny, but he is also very intelligent, in a street-wise way, and he’s not afraid to keep it all the way real. It’s part of what I love most about him. I’m telling you, there was just so much material that I was forced to edit out a lot of it. So, depending on the feedback I get on this, I will most definitely have to revisit this topic and write up the complete interview for a future ETM article. I hope you enjoy.

Thanks for reading!

Eugene McWilliams, born in Chicago, Nov. 23, 1938

On being married 48 years

It’s okay.

That’s it? It’s just been okay?

Yeah. [We both burst into laughter.]

Honest message to his wife…

Hang in there! [laughs]

“Don’t think that every person that’s got old got wisdom. They done had fools since before I was born. They
was back there talking crazy as hell! You got just as good a chance of having an analytical mind at fourteen or fifteen as you would at eighty…”

Life lesson he wished he’d learned sooner than later…

I would say, I wish I had learned… shit, damn near everything. [chuckles] No, but let me think. I would have to say Algebra and Calculus and all of that math stuff.

Advice to young people…

Go to school as much as you can, even if it’s hard. No matter what you have to sacrifice, stay in school. Save your money! Budget your money and save it the best you can. Always put something up and remember to pay yourself first.

Thoughts on today’s violence…

People like to talk about “now-a-day’s people this, now-a-day’s people that”. The only difference is then people didn’t have automatic weapons, but every Friday and Saturday night the county hospital was full of people cutting people’s throat with razors.

Thoughts on today’s independent women…

More women got their own jobs, and they got better jobs. They got their own cars. When I was coming up, if a brotha had a car, he had every woman on the block. If he was the one that had a car, that was all you needed, and you were good. Now, every woman has a car, or two cars. That makes women more independent. There’s still some of the hangover from a lot of guys thinking that the guys are supposed to be the boss, even though when the guy was so-called “the boss” it was because he had the job and the money. And that’s what made him the boss. Not that he was any brighter.

To see more of the staff's Elderly Conversations, click on the link below:

http://etmmagazine.info/Editorials/2009/12/articles/2009_12_elders.html

New Year's RAVOlutions!




Ravolution for 2010
Written By: Raven Ekundayo


For 2009 I wanted to work on taking another step toward my freedom from some of the matriX’s that still eXisted in my life. Through much prayer and hard work I was able to eXcape a good amount of them. For that I’m thankful.
In 2009 my company and magazine continued to grow and we have definitely hit our stride with much room to grow. Ccep, luminoUS, EN and ^Northerstar* have handled their areas within the magazine well and have made it easier for me to handle other areas of the Ravolution Multimedia brand. Because of this I was able to work on getting our mission out to even more people. I think we grew more in 2009 than in any other year.


This year I interviewed Cornel West. In starting this online publication I had certain people in mind that I wanted to interview, if you watch the intro to the magazine you will see many of them. Interviewing Brother West was a dream come true and it taught me the power of truly putting positive energy into the universe and what it can get you. In interviewing him I realized the impact this magazine could truly have on the lives of many. We were blessed to have more people than I could possibly name inside of ETM this year and if anything gave me the drive to keep our mission going it was this.



Faith.Knowledge.Wisdom.Understanding

Written by: Ccep J. Dew, West Coast Editor
Photo by: Quill Wordsmith, Marsalis Images

I usually don’t do well with brevity, which is why I usually don’t write good haikus. My two previous Ravolutions were eXtra long, but this one won’t be… because I am changing.

I have been living in fear and doubt, but not anymore. The end of the year is usually depression-filled for me, but not this year. Though I am physically and emotionally drained at the close of this year, I am mentally healthy and spiritually happy… I am changing.

Every December, I choose a quote and phrase that will guide me through the new year. This year, my quote found me on the last page of Instructions for Alchemy. Ingredients of Ether by David “Judah 1” Oliver:

FAITH is a skydive jump.
KNOWLEDGE is ground soon come.
WISDOM is enjoying the fall.
UNDERSTANDING that the fall may kill you.










Written by: luminoUS, Editor-at-Large

Each year, the staff of eXcapethematriX is asked to think of a “Ravolution” for the impending year, but this “Ravolution” has to be one that is realistic to upholding. In 2008, I set out for the following “Ravolution” for the 2009 year, “I will continuously strive to live a healthier lifestyle and invest time in building a family of my own,” and I feel like I’ve kept this “Ravolution” for this year. Although I have not started a family of my own as of yet, I am finding a newfound happiness and respect for dating. Hey, you have to start somewhere, right? I have also tried my best to maintain a healthier lifestyle. This “Ravolution” will carry over into 2010, but I will also add the fact that I will try at all cost to relinquish control. I try so hard to keep everything under wraps and control what isn’t in my power to control, which leaves me burned out and frustrated. For 2010, I will keep the serenity prayer on the tip of my lips and throw up my hands when I feel the need to wrangle a situation. I vow to myself to let things flow and to glide upon the tide of life.

2010 Ravolution:
Chavez’s Ravolution 2010

Written by: ^Northernstar*
Photo by: Quill Wordsmith, Marsalis Images

“Inhale Positivity, Exhale Anxiety” - Beyoncé

A few days ago, I watched the “I Am… Yours” DVD and before Beyoncé & her crew went on stage to perform in front of thousands, they all engaged in a passionate prayer when the diva stated the aforementioned quote. I rewind that part so many times to really allow the quote to marinate in my head. Something so simple was very affective. Life would be so easy if we all could just breathe positivity & let go of any negative energy.

In the past 10-11 months, I’ve had to make the best out of the worst-case scenarios to find out in the end, I am still the winner… I am undefeated. Many people say they are thankful for the great things they are blessed with, but I want to give thanks for all of those bad moments I had to endure. I am truly excited to give my thanks to God & the people in my life who have helped me grow. I can honestly say I've learned the power of forgiveness, the power of unconditional love, the power of harmony, and the power of letting go. I am truly grateful for the trials & tribulations. I feel like I've survived through situations individuals in their 40's are going through now.

2010 Ravolution:
New Year… Better Me

Written by: Renee BlackStar

2009 has turned out to be a great year for me, by far my best year yet! Outside of hitting the thirty year marker, I have managed to successfully accomplish many of the goals I set for myself at the start of 08’. I’ve finally found the courage and confidence to get up before a group of strangers and share my creative side. I’ve also effectively put anxiety in my back pocket and proved to myself that I won’t die if I pick up the mic. Score one point for me because I am a sufferer of stage fright, but through my fears I persevered. Score even more points for me because I was able to parlay that new found confidence into finding the nerve to actually sing in front of strangers as well! The idea of which, for me, was even more terrifying than the ladder situation. But, wouldn’t you know it… I’m still alive! On top of that, I got to meet and interview more than a few beautiful and talented people through my work with ETM and by joining other networking groups that work diligently toward the betterment of the people. On the downside though, for the “I don’t know how manyeth time”, I haven’t managed to accomplish the goal of shedding this baby fat I’ve been carrying around for the past six years! HA! I did put forth some effort, but not enough to make a difference. I’m not too hard on myself though. Me and exercise ain’t NEVER been friends! And so, I’ve learned that it’s better for me not to torture myself with New Year’s Resolutions. This next year I plan to just focus on the next level, whatever that may be. Self-improvement is a constant aspiration and I will continue to strive for a better me. Here’s to new beginnings… CHEERS!

To read the entire staff's RAVOlutions, click the link below:

http://etmmagazine.info/Editorials/2009/12/articles/2009_12_editorials_staff.html

Friday, December 4, 2009

Music Hits The Spot series (Take It Off) - By: Donald Mitchell


As I muddled through the many various topics I could write about, I thought about something. I figured, how many of you women out here reading this post have thought about songs that you could "perform" to? Don't front, don't act like you've never thought about dancing for your boo, in the privacy of your (or his, or the hotel) room. It's cool...I ain't mad about it. I enjoy a good private dance too...9 times outta 10, it's gonna lead to somethin that will benefit you in the end.

Now coming up with this list was pretty easy actually. The first song that popped into my head was the below: I mean, seriously, listening to this song, you already got instructions. LOL



Pimp C just tells you off bat:

"Take it off bitch, bend over lemme see
if you lookin for a trill type nigga lemme be it.
"

And if you do that right, you bound to get yours in before you know it. But don't just get up there and think that because you got this song on, and somethin real scandalous, that we gone up and start bangin. (Well, we will, but you know..lol). Make sure you, "work somethin, twerk somethin".

And for the fellas, don't get psychotic and start humpin as soon as she start dancin. Let her make her way over to ya. It'll be worth the wait. If you lookin for some other suggestions to get her outta her shell and onto a make shift pole in the crib, look down below (not in ya pants, but at the list...lol):

50 Cent - Ayo Technology: Here's a bangin visual for you ladies if you want some pointers on how to work a pole. LOL

Jeremih - Birthday Sex: A great way to show the man you love, just how MUCH you love him on his birthday.

The Dream - Lemme See The Booty: Here is for you lap dancing gurls. I know you know what I'm talkin about. Or maybe you wanna do more than dance in that lap.

Crime Mob - Rock Yo Hips: If you one of those ladies that like to gyrate outta control, here is the theme song for you. Maybe this should be your starter song to get ya clothes off.

Ludacris - Splash Waterfalls I suggest this be your ending song right before you relax and let it gooooooooooo! SAY IT!

Lil Wayne feat Bobby V. - Mrs. Officer: Take notes ladies....ideas for after you go in for the kill.

I know this is different from the norm, but I am an equal opportunist, and the strippers should get their just do. We can't leave them out, cause they have provided us men with quality hours spent in shake junts, bachelor parties, and the like. Don't be afraid to show your man how you can work it behind closed doors....after all, we love a lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets. YUUU-WEH!!!!

Wednesday, December 2, 2009

Bad Habits - Written By: Donald Mitchell

Have you ever had a jones for someone, someone that you knew you probably shouldn't or shouldn't have had no types of feelings for. Someone that you should leave the hell alone, but they are like your bad habit?

I think Maxwell spoke a for real truth in this song.



He speaks about someone that he knows is real wrong for him, especially because he's in a relationship at the time. From the beginning of the song, he recognizes that he's dead wrong for gettin the key from ole chick and then using it. But hey, we've all had those types of moments.

This is definitely one of those songs, that I'd recommend gettin play on a rainy night when you tryna get it in. Even if you just wanna play the entire CD (which by the way I do recommend for a good listen....the boy ain't lost his touch!), he sets off the mood right by startin the CD with this song. Very soulful, not too slutty (unless you watchin the video..then that's a Skinemax show lol), and with the right person, you gone get some draws dropped.

I know we done all been there before, hell, I been there recently, but you know what, sometimes, you just can't help yaself. I think Maxwell put it best when he said:

You're my bad habit baby you're my
You're taking my soul down to the letter O
Can't escape the way you got me locked out baby
I gotta break from you, break from you, break from you.


It was that serious....he had to get away 3 times. Don't tell me you ain't been there before.



Make sure to check out Donald's weekly blog:

www.musicaldramatics.blogspot.com